Identifying With WASB

This past February WASB hosted an internal DEI workshop where we invited the Office of Inclusion Education to discuss identity and awareness at one of our general meetings. We hold these workshops every semester and each time they look a little different, whether it be a new topic, or a new organization that we invite. However, these workshops always provide members with something new to carry into their lives on campus. Unfortunately for me, it was an identity crisis.

During this workshop we had a personal identity activity where we were asked to create an identity “constellation” outlining our core traits. Naturally, I tackled this with the usual WASB enthusiasm, so after getting my sheet of paper, I spent the next 5 minutes writing down my countless identities… I came up with an underwhelming four: curiosity, my sense of humor, music taste, and responsibility.

The thing was, we were being asked for unique personal identities, and I don’t have any. Not to say that I have the personality of a brick wall, but rather everything I could identify is shared with others. Even the four I came up with were shared.

My curiosity was a gift from my dad, a science teacher, who always found a way to monologue about reflection, refraction and dispersion when explaining the magic of rainbows. Keep in mind this was only when I was five. Later in life, I would be upgraded to physics where he would walk around our kitchen like it was a classroom and describe general relativity with a blanket.

I identify strongly with my sense of humor, and I share it with my mom, who almost never thinks twice about embarrassing herself or doing something silly as long as it gets a laugh. She is specifically a fan of those photo stand-ins, and deeply enjoys updating my brothers and me whenever she finds a new one.

Although my music taste is something I have curated throughout the past 22 years of my life, it’s still the same as my older brother Alex’s. It’s almost like each time I send him a new song I find out that not only has he already heard it, but he’s actually been listening to it for the last 5 years.

While I’d like to consider myself responsible, even that is something I didn’t develop myself. As the pinnacle of level-headed organization my oldest brother Sam is to thank for any shred of it that I have.

After questioning everything about my individuality, I began to wonder what other traits I’ve pulled from my surroundings, so I switched my focus to the WASBies I was sitting in the room with.

Being from Wisconsin, I grew up in a big euchre household, so when I looked around the room and spotted Will and Molly, I was happy to think how they both shared the so-called “love of the game.” I’d like to note that neither of them have ever said no to a game of euchre.

As an instagram reels truther, and a roommate in a house of 12 guys, I’d consider myself pretty tapped into brain rot. Looking in front of me, I noticed Elena and Bella sitting next to each other and I knew that they would both unconsciously laugh at a 6-7 joke or the notorious John Pork.

In the corner of the room, I noticed my roommate Eli. We joined WASB together and I’m sure there are multiple traits we share, but the one that came to mind is his incessant demand that I break in the spines of my books before I start reading so as to not crease it. I’m sure I’ll curse his name each and every time I do it from now on.

I continued my personality search around the room for the remaining workshop and began to find some peace in the fact that my traits were not unique. After all, so many of my significant identities came from the people I admire in my life, and I find no shortage of those people on WASB. It is an organization full of incredibly passionate, well-rounded, cheerful members that have come together to create positive impacts on the individuals and communities around them.

Knowing that so much of my personality either comes from or is supported by WASB turned what started out as an identity crisis into an overwhelming sense of community. While my time on WASB is coming to a close, I am incredibly grateful to know that I share interests and identities with such wonderful people. WASB has shaped so much of my college experience, and if my personality and identities are any representation of my past, I want my WASB-isms to shine through.

With our applications being open, who knows, you might join and find a piece of yourself in others, or discover new things about yourself. I guarantee you’ll walk away with a new found passion for Fleetwood Mac’s Landslide and hugs.

Favorite Study Spots on Campus

One of my favorite things about going to college on a massive campus is the variety of study spots at every students’ disposal. Though I have many friends who prefer to do homework from the comfort of their homes or dorms, that’s never been me! Here are a few favorite spots, likely not new to seniors but perhaps new to some other folks. 

1. Hammel Library in Memorial Union

Great for a cozy late-night winter study session. Since the Union is open pretty late, this was the perfect alternative to Memorial Library or College Library. Soft lighting, a warm atmosphere (read: faint sounds of the piano in the room next door…), and the massive collection of yearbooks on the bookshelves make this spot unique. 

2. School of Education cafe and rooftop

Right on Bascom, the School of Education boasts a few public spaces primed for homework between classes. If it’s nice out, the patio on the top floor is a hidden gem (sorry not sorry for revealing this!). On a colder day, the atrium on the main floor has plenty of tables to grind out a quiz or two. 

3. Nancy Nicholas Hall rooftop (and first floor bathrooms)

Another outdoor space for those rare 70-degree spring days. I’m a Consumer Behavior & Marketplace Studies major, so I’m in this underrated building daily. The sun gets intense up on that patio. Take a break from studying by making the trek to the first floor bathrooms, famous on campus for their eclectic take on the phrase “nature calls”. 

4. The University Club

I love this building for its old-school collegiate feel. Both the porch outside and the cafe inside feel like a sort of living room right off of Library Mall. I love to snag one of the big couches when I’m with a friend. 

5. Kohler Art Library

Not far from the University Club, The Kohler Art Library features sprawling tables, plentiful outlets, and a fabulous collection of plants. I find this library is great to take an exam; there’s not a ton of turnover and students tend to sit two at a table, so there’s plenty of room to spread out papers and notes. 

Now that the weather is warming up, I’m transitioning from my winter, hibernate-y favorites to my warm-weather patios. I’ve left off countless other spots–there are too many to count. 

An Ode to the A-House (Alumni House)

As a new member, it feels surreal to be writing for the WASBlog. Joining WASB this semester has been amazing beyond my greatest belief, and among the many benefits I have enjoyed, including the formation of new friendships and a new sense of connection with the school, I have become a close friend to the A-house. But, as a naive WASB applicant, I was unaware of what the A-house was. Let’s dissect it. 

The building itself is home to the Wisconsin Alumni Association, an organization devoted to continuing the UW-Madison experience post-graduation. The A in A-house refers to the Alumni Association in WASB lingo. Located next to the Red Gym and close to Memorial Union, the building encapsulates campus’s beauty with full 180 degree views of Lake Mendota. Through the windows of the building, members of the student body and Madison residents can be seen walking, biking, and running on the beginning of Lakeshore path, a connection between campus and nature. 

The space in the building is allocated for a variety of purposes. Offices, meeting and third spaces, information desks - the lists go on. The hours are listed on the website at, https://www.alumnipark.com/visit/one-alumni-place/. During open hours, the lobby is available for the public to enjoy. When coffee shops are full and a change of pace from libraries is needed, the A-house tables are a magnificent option. 

One of the many benefits of WASB is getting 24 hour access to the building. The building is an essential part of every WASB’s experience here at UW. Here is what I have done in the A-house thus far: studied, laughed, planned, listened, attended meetings, and honestly, the list goes on and on. At all times, WASBs are in the A-house studying or planning; it's what we do.

During off hours, we fill into meeting rooms to study or catch up. Tea is made in the Higgy (a meeting room within the A-house) and food from Memorial Union or State Street is fuel to get good work done. The A-house is an amazing place to watch the sunset - I have not watched enough of them yet. 

Life is always simply amazing at the A-house. Rugby on or off, the A-house is always the place to be. 

The WASB Wardrobe: A Look at What We’re Wearing

No two WASBies dress exactly alike, and perhaps that is part of what brings us all together. WASB style is distinctive, thoughtful, and sure to turn heads. While everyone in WASB is incredibly unique and creative, some fashion trends are just too good not to mention. 

Sole Searching

These boots are made for walking, and that’s just what they’ll do. WASBies step out in style, and that starts with the shoes. If you want your shoes to say, “I’m climbing a mountain after this,” Salomons are the right choice, offering both function and flair for the avid nature-lover or Bascom-climber. For a sleek look, many opt for Onitsuka Tigers, a versatile and classic pair that works with almost any outfit. A staple for our very own WASBand, the Pennies, loafers are a polished and timeless choice, proving that good style can save you the trouble of lacing up. Last, but certainly not least, boots (that’s my ego boost). The sound of boots walking down a hallway is unmistakable, and that’s why we love them. For a dramatic and vintage panache, ready for both farm and runway, boots are the way to go.

Dapper in Denim

Fear not, Justin and Britney–the Canadian tuxedo is alive and well. We live, breathe, and die by denim. Jeans are classic and casual, an excellent choice for nearly every outfit. Light wash, dark wash, baggy, or flared, it’s hard to go wrong with a pair of jeans. 

WASBies never fail to rise above, so why stop at just pants? I’m talking about jean shirts (jirts), jean vests (jests), and jean jackets (well, jackets). Fortune favors the bold, and few looks are bolder than denim on denim. To wear a Canadian tuxedo requires confidence, commitment, and audacity. These outfits are very “tongue-in-chic,” showing off charisma, humor, and strong command of style. 

It’s Coat-ure, Honey

What is a WASBie if not the owner of an iconic coat? Rather than describing the coats of many colors that WASBies adorn, I’ll highlight some that speak for themselves.

Plush in Patagonia

One time, I was walking to class and spotted this fantastic fleece and thought for sure it was my fellow Bab, Isaac. Come to find out, it was not Isaac, but an impostor. Bundled up for a chilly Madison morning or layered for a mountain summit, Isaac wears it well.

Fur Sure

You know she means business when Annie P wears her fur coat. Perfect for a night out or a dramatic entrance to literally anywhere, this coat brings glamour to every occasion. 

The Coat to End All Coats

I could write an entire blog post about this coat. This is the only coat to ever exist. Mihika has cemented herself as a WASB fashion legend with her conviction and unwavering commitment to outerwear excellence. Not to mention, it goes perfectly with her other iconic accessory: the world’s largest bag.

Hair to the Throne

WASBies’ hairdos are head and shoulders above the rest. It seems that recently, WASB has caught a case of “bang-fever,” and the results have altered the course of history for the better. A good bang can shift the climate of a room, and let’s just say, temperatures are rising. WASBangs are playful, they are chic, and they are extremely necessary. WASB is also blessed with the highest concentration of redheads west of Dublin. At this point, it’s less a coincidence than it is a defining feature of WASB. Bringing warmth and beauty to any room, WASB’s redheads boast follicle shades most of us only dream of.

The Signature Look

Of course, the most iconic piece in a WASBie’s wardrobe is their rugby. Worn cross-body, over the shoulders, or all the way on, a rugby is the real-life equivalent of a Thneed. Curating your rugby pin collection is a sacred task. But wearing a rugby is more than just a fashion statement. In a group of incredibly diverse and creative people, it is what brings us together. When you put on your rugby, you become a part of and represent a community of leaders, trailblazers, and friends. The rugby is a symbol of unity, tradition, and connection. When I wear my rugby, I know I belong.

B-sides and Belonging

Everyone has a soundtrack to their life; they have songs that attach themselves to moments and people without their choosing. They simply are there, and suddenly become the melody you carry with those memories. As my time on WASB comes to a close, I’ve found myself slowing down, pausing, and allowing myself to look back on my time. When I was planning this blog, I wanted to communicate how much my experience has meant to me, but I didn’t know how, yet I kept coming back to music. So that’s how I’ve chosen to tell this story, through the soundtrack to my WASB experience.

Blue Skies – Allman Brothers Band

After my second interview for WASB, I remember walking home with my roommate, and the now-standing president, Simon Brown, somewhat freaking out at the fact that we were now a part of something that would make an impact on campus. As we made our way back to the dorm room, neither of us could stop talking, or smiling for that matter. It was one of those moments in life where you just had to stop and eat a peach. I had Blue Skies by the Allman Brothers Band stuck in my head for some reason I couldn’t explain at the time, but as I look back on it fondly now, it makes perfect sense. The song is less about the weather and more of a feeling, like there is something coming up on the horizon, and good is going to come. That is exactly what that walk home was.

That’s How Strong My Love Is – Otis Redding

My first WASB retreat feels like something of a fever dream now. Being greeted with 65 fresh faces and trying to remember the names of people I had met for a brief moment four months before. It was scary and a daunting thing when I first walked into 650 N. Lake Street for the first time, being an official WASB. But somewhere in between the bus ride to camp and the early morning wakeups, something shifted. It wasn’t that I was just learning the names of the people around me; I was learning who they were as people. I was learning that this group is the kind of people who show up for you without being asked, who give tenfold what they take, and who can make you feel as if they’ve known you for years in a few short minutes. Though That’s How Strong My Love Is was written for a lover, it’s understood that there is something universal about the feeling of finding your people, and the quiet, yet overwhelming, certainty that you would do anything for them, and they would do the same for you.

Walk of Life – Dire Straits

There is something about the walk to the alumni building on a Wednesday night that never gets old. Often, the walk starts with Simon and me attempting to solve the problems of the world, and somewhere along the way, you run into another member, and if you’re lucky, another, and by the time you’ve reached the door of the alumni building, you’ve got a convoy headed in. All laughing about something that happened to someone or a silly story being told. Dire Straits wrote Walk of Life as a celebration of someone who found their thing and never let go of it. It's for the people who show up every time, with everything they have. That is what the walk to WASB meetings feels like to me. When I was a new member and still trying to figure out my place in the org, I walked in nervously. Now, as a team director, I walk in with a different feeling entirely. The feeling is something akin to joy, or maybe even pride. Not a pride that I find in myself, but in the room that I am about to walk into. All the familiar faces, warm hugs, and noise spilling through the door as it begins to open. Every time I make that walk to the alumni building, I am reminded that this is my thing, and I never want to let go of it.

How Lucky – John Prine

John Prine wrote How Lucky as a simple observation. To look around, look at what you have, and think about how you got so lucky to be there. I’ve thought about those sentiments a lot as my time in WASB draws closer to its end. For me, it’s not the big events or milestones that come to mind when I think of what this organization has meant to me. It’s the small moments in between. It’s the quiet seconds before a meeting closes when the room is full and buzzing. The walks across campus and lunches with people you didn’t know two years ago that I now can’t imagine my life without. It’s the brief pause to look around a room and realize that everyone chose to be there and chose to give a piece of themselves for the person next to them. I never understood how rare that was when I first joined as a freshman, but I understand it now. Lucky is an understatement, but it’s the closest word I can find for this organization and the people it’s given me.

Lastly, Alexa, play Landslide by Fleetwood Mac.